SLUT-Shaming? http://voices.news24.com/lauren-hess/2013/04/am-i-a-slut-shamer/

In response to:-  http://voices.news24.com/lauren-hess/2013/04/am-i-a-slut-shamer/
You seem to think that 'teenagers' are simply responding to what they're told by some evil behind the scene malevolence, that they are helpless little robot rabbits in the headlights of the great machine of patriarchy. But have you considered that they are making the decision to do what feels good to them, spontaneously express their pride and joy in their developing bodies? It's not a political statement to put on a bikini and pose on a Facebook page with a 3 point pout. They are the agents of their own hormones, emotions and drives. They aren't activated by 'inappropriate' attention...what they do encourages attention, demands attention, and when it gets attention, why complain? Why turn it into some great slut-saga? Slutty behavior - bolshy, in your face, indecent, crass, aggressive and inappropriate behavior is nothing to celebrate and equating it with healthy teenage sexuality is dangerously misguided. The world of sex is fraught with risk, reward, ecstasy and agony. It brings us moments of peace, clarity and purest joy; as well as hours of angst and sometimes, deepest despair. Why treat it as a problem with some deeper darker root, some hidden history, some sinister significance or political back-story? Let the young folk be. They don't need our paranoia and insecurities souring the sticky sweet and sensuous soup that is Youth's unrestrained joie-de-vivre. They don't care about about the politics of sexuality. Give the youth affection and care, guidance and discipline. They need these yin/yang aspects of love in order to develop into well rounded, strong and tender souls. Teach them about the world as it is, not the world as you believe it to be, or as you're being told by the mass media machine, which is nothing more than a big dumb dog keeping us all up at night.

It is a sign of the times that adults spend a good part of their lives in a constant state of quivering introspection and squint-eyed hand-wringing that would make Gandhi look like a self-absorbed pot-smoker. The problem is really that the human body has become politicized, The LIBERAL Left, those self-proclaimed guardians against intolerance and discrimination, generate the dialectic and concomitant rules as they try to become the new moral arbiters of some fantasized homogeneous 'equal' society. They are trying to engineer the impossible, without acknowledging a single fundamental truth about humanity. It never changes. As the Judeo-Christian son of God is being torn off his cross, his house the church being maligned by a world of vicious malcontents with no other agenda than to watch something sacred destroyed, these acolytes of the new Moral Minority are just as quickly erecting their own monuments and signs in their respective patches of Golgotha. Why change the formula, when you can rename it and claim you discovered it?

CNN tells us how to go about "Raising a boy not to be a Rapist".

Read article here> "Raising a boy not to be a rapist".

This article is discriminatory against women, implying women are not as capable as men!!!!

Remember, a woman can do anything a man can do, and sometimes, even better.

Just look at the incidents of rape, sexual assault, substance abuse and other antisocial behavior among the lesbian community, detailed in this recent MCASA report(<<click here for rest of report):  

1 - "Lesbians report “physically or mentally coercive sex” more often than gay men. One study found that 31% of lesbians reported forced sexual encounters versus 12% of gay men. “The Gender of Sexuality: The Gender Lens,” P. Schwartz et al., 1998
2 - "Data collected by a California Coalition Against Sexual Assault report and San Francisco Women Against Rape found that 1 in 3 lesbians have been sexually assaulted by a woman, and 1 in 4 have experienced violence within a lesbian relationship. “California Sexual Assault Report Outlines Alarming GLBT Statistics,” A. Lawlor, 2005.
3 - Young lesbian and bisexual females were four times more likely to have experienced their own peers “attempting to hurt them in a sexual way (i.e. attempted rape or rape),” than heterosexual girls.
“California Sexual Assault Report Outlines Alarming GLBT Statistics,” A. Lawlor, 2005


So, moms, have that chat with your girls now, see, lest they be unable to contain themselves and go on a rape spree, or be witness to one and not report it, therefore condoning it by being complicit in their silence.  
Talk to them now, before its too late!!!

A response to an email equating rape and porn, and porn being about penises and power

Dear ‘Raped’ person who is disgusted that a local sex therapist is supporting the introduction of a porn channel of satellite TV, in spite of the fact she herself, was ‘raped’. 

Firstly, sex is not only something men do because they have penis-power issues. This is a neo-Marxist fallacy, sexist propaganda put out by the ultra-left and extreme feminists who want every woman to be able to claim victimhood by virtue of their sex, setting off an unending chain of entitlement and unearned privilege in the name of a morally bankrupt utopian ideal.  They politicise the personal in order to justify the demonization of the male species in favour of the sanctification of the female; both of which dehumanise the parties concerned; and move us closer and closer to totalitarianism; as is clearly illustrated by the current Stazi-style enforcement of the politically correct.  

Secondly, females use sex as currency, used to wield influence over, and manipulate men. Feminists (sexual trade unionists) use propaganda, intimidation & manipulation of state, legal & academic institutions to extend the reach, power and scope of this primary source of female power. They use language to redefine everything into an offense against the holy feminine sensibility (oxymoron intended). For example "rape” and “abuse" are turning into a meaningless buzzwords; cynical publicity weapons for attention-seekers and ‘hero/survivors'. It has become almost a twisted badge of honour in the so-called 'war-against-women', which elicits wide-eyed gasps and much panicked hand-wringing; some in sympathy or horror, some in rage or outrage, many from sheer exhaustion at being bombarded by messages that male sexuality is equal to rape-mentality and that all men are rapists. Using that same logic, it can be claimed that women (except prostitutes), using their sex to their social and financial advantage, can be labelled disingenuous fraudsters, child-hostage-taking, manipulative carnal terrorists; mobsters who should face legal sanction for the havoc they wreak in men’s and children’s lives. But men don’t go that route for three reasons:

1.       We are biologically hardwired to protect women. Our identities are tied in to being able to provide for and protect a family. We enjoy affirmation and emotional nourishment found in a healthy family environment. But this too is changing, as traditional society and the nuclear family unit is suffering the relentless forces of commodification, as well as the misguided social engineering experiments of the extreme left.  

2.       We realise that sex is not the most important issue in the world, and that the world doesn’t revolve around the manipulation of human genitals, forced or voluntary. We have design, art and technology, architecture and other endeavours as outlets for our creativity; and do not simply limit our creativity to our biological capacity to breed.

3.       The backlash against FEMINISM has started. In spite of the heartless, godless, relentless and merciless social and political thrashing men get from the popular media, the state and women they meet whose minds have been further addled by propaganda, we will never whip out the knives because it’s just not ‘sporting’. It’s just not proper, respectful, or appropriate. Even though, if we took the proverbial boxing gloves off, we would probably find ourselves in a much better position to counter rampant misandry.  

Thirdly, porn is one of the last refuges for disenfranchised men who are tired of having to sacrifice their values, friends, family and finances to the unrealistic demands of women; parasitic princesses with one mascara-plastered eye scanning for a service provider upgrade (‘new boyfriend’ or ’husband’, preferably someone else's’ i.e. broken in and probably, a little desperate). These women project their demons onto the male of the species; blaming their every failure and short-fall men/abuse/rape/patriarchy/insert oppressor’s credentials here______________; muddying the waters of society until the finally find themselves ‘abandoned’ with a  clutch of critters and nowhere to go because no-one will put up with them. And they still have the temerity to ask: “Where have all the real men gone?” ?????

Well…I offer this retort---:”Where have all the ‘real women’ gone?”

The answer: "Porno-land."

A great fantasy date is better than a real crap one.

And so it begins

It seems to me that no one is investigating Misandry in the South African media. With this blog, I want to start. These are my beliefs and opinions, some of which might be considered psychological onanism; some of which may constitute useful ideas and new, interesting ways of viewing this hidden, but very serious problem.